Wordless Wednesday Flip Flop Power

A few weekends back we went to my hub's family reunion.
They played some football like every year.

This is a shot from the game. That's my hubs catching the ball mid air with flip flops.
That's some Flip Flop Power!

I love the Basement

Ever since we have moved into our new house with the basement we haven't had not one fight. That basement is awesome. The hubs already has a chair and table and the radio down there. His hung up some things on the walls and it's slowly become his man cave.
His always wanted a man cave and now he has one. Hell he has a man cave and a whole room just for his clothes so I don't have to see the mess he makes with them. He can now get his "me time". I know how important me time is. I get me time every time Skylee takes a nap. I don't know what I would do without me time.
It's also his cool down place. If he gets mad at me or something, I say something because I don't wanna admit that it's me mostly, he just walks down stairs and listens to his music really loud and cools down. I think a basement/man cave is the secret to a good marriage. Also the basement door locks on the outside so I can lock him in whenever I feel like it. LOL It hasn't happened yet, and I said yet.
I hope he likes his man cave. His always wanted one. He can hear the excited in his voice when he talks about getting a pool table. And his even talked about building a bar down there. I say all the power to him as long as my washer and dyer area is left untouched.
So there you have it. I have found the secret to staying married for 80 years. Give your man a man cave.

Psychedelic Sunday

I'm joining the blog hop Psychedelic Sunday hosted by Stash Mama.

Is it wrong to wanna spend time with your husband with no one else around. I'm sorry if that's selfish, he seems to think it is. I just love him so much. After a year of him not being around due to a deployment, I like having him around. I like spending time with him and just him.
I love our daughter but I don;t always want her around. I know most moms would agree with me. Kids are great and all, but sometimes you need mommy and daddy time. I seems to only get that between him working, doing his school work, me cleaning and taking care of Skylee. Then he has friends and family. I'm starting to feel I'm coming in last. I know his got a life outside of me. And it was my choice to be a stay at home mom and devote my life to him and our family.
But I miss our "us" time. Things are just so busy, while for him anyways. It's hard to find time.
I don't know. Just feeling a little bummed right now.

XOXO
Nikki Darlin'