Lost Preggo Pictures

I feel so sad. I was looking through some facebook pages and seeing everyone with their pregnant pictures up. I had some up, but they were on Myspace. I deleted myspace a while back and saved the pictures on my netbook. Which if you've been reading my blog for a while you know the story of the dead baby netbook. So all gone. My mom has some of the pictures but not all. So I wanted to share some of the pregnant pictures that I do still have.

I was 5months here. Scotty was home for 4days right before he deployed. We had just found out I was having a girl. I look horrible.

This is my friend Quianna and me. Again I look horrible. I was 8months here. It was July. I was dieing from the heat. And to make it worse I was staying at my mom's house that had no A/C. The 2nd picture is my professional preggo shot. I was 7 or 8 months here. Super cute picture!

This was me and my aunt ( yes preggo at the same time, I was farther along). This was the day before I went into labor at 36 weeks.

After 8 hours of labor ( that's another story ), I had this pretty little 5lb 14oz baby girl.

XOXO

Nikki Darlin'

16, Pregnant, and Married

I have been watching 16 & Pregnant from the beginning with Maci, Amber, Farrah, Catlin, and those other girls who didn't make it to Teen Mom. On their season there was no getting married. They were pregnant and maybe engaged, which didn't last long.

The newest season, I have been watching, these girls are getting married left and right. Just a few episodes into the season and I have already seen two weddings.
I think this season is just wrong. It's giving young girls the idea that they can just have a baby and get married and live a happy life.
I believe marriage is nothing to take lightly. It's not easy in anyway. It's even harder when you throw a baby into the mix.
Being young myself, had a baby and married at 20, I know how hard it is trying to hold together a marriage and raise a baby. You're no longer just playing house. These girls don't even have a house. They are living with their parents.
If my daughter came to me pregnant at 16, God I hope this doesn't happen, I surely would not let her get married. These parents, in my opinion this is my blog, should have made them wait. I'm not going to get into the baby part of the fixture, but they should have waited until they got married. I kept hearing the girls say they didn't wanna be fat when they got married, so they got married before the baby. These girls are living in a true fantasy.
To show other girls, who are watching this show, they should do a update show on each girl other than the update show they do with Dr. Drew. They should go back into their homes and show everyone how home life is now after the show. I truly hope girls aren't looking up to these girls.

XOXO
Nikki Darlin'